It is not uncommon for one spouse to want a divorce while the other refuses to accept it. One spouse may say outright that they will not sign anything. Another may ignore messages and court papers, hoping that this will stop the process.
In Florida, that does not prevent a dissolution of marriage.
Florida follows a no-fault divorce system. A spouse filing for divorce does not have to prove adultery, cruelty, or other marital fault. One of the statutory grounds is that the marriage is irretrievably broken. This is set out in Florida Statutes § 61.052.
Accordingly, the other spouse’s consent and desire to preserve the marriage are not the same as having a legal right to block the divorce.
If the Other Spouse Does Not Agree to the Divorce
One spouse may file the petition. The other spouse’s signature consenting to the dissolution of marriage is not required.
The procedural requirements must still be satisfied. In particular, at least one spouse must meet Florida’s six-month residency requirement before the petition is filed.
After the case is filed, the other party must be properly served with the court papers. From that point, the process depends less on that person’s attitude toward the divorce itself and more on how they respond to the relief requested.
The spouse may participate in the case and dispute issues involving property, debts, alimony, a parenting plan, or time-sharing. The divorce then becomes contested. In many cases, those issues—not the desire to preserve the marriage—take up most of the litigation.
There is also a separate situation in which a spouse answers the petition and denies that the marriage is irretrievably broken. Depending on the circumstances, the law allows the court to continue the proceeding for up to three months, refer the parties to counseling, or take other measures authorized by statute.
But this does not give the other spouse an unlimited right to keep someone in the marriage. If the court finds that the marriage is in fact irretrievably broken, it may enter a final judgment dissolving the marriage.
“I Won’t Sign Anything.” Will That Stop the Case?
No. Refusing to sign documents and withholding consent do not, by themselves, stop the court proceeding.
In fact, ignoring the court papers may place the respondent in a less favorable procedural position.
After proper service of the petition, the spouse generally has 20 days to file a response. If no response is filed, the petitioner may request entry of a default and move the case forward. This procedure is expressly addressed in Florida Curts materials.
That is why the statement “I won’t sign the papers, so there will be no divorce” has no legal effect in Florida.
The situation is different if the spouse responds but disagrees with the terms. That spouse may contest the relief requested, submit documents, and present legal arguments. The dispute may therefore last longer, but the issue becomes the terms on which the marriage will end—not whether one spouse has a veto over the divorce itself.
Can a Spouse Prevent the Divorce Altogether?
Florida law provides no such mechanism.
State law abolished a number of older defenses that were historically raised in divorce proceedings. The court must still follow the statutory procedure and determine that a legal ground for dissolution of marriage exists.
In practice, it is useful to separate two very different questions.
First: can you get divorced without your spouse’s consent? Yes. The other spouse’s consent is not a legal prerequisite.
Second: can the divorce always be completed quickly and without disputes? Not necessarily.
If a spouse contests the division of property, alimony, or issues involving the children, the case may require negotiations, financial disclosure, presentation of evidence, and court hearings.
What to Do if a Spouse Refuses to Participate in the Divorce
The main mistake in this situation is to build the entire process around trying to obtain the other spouse’s consent.
It is far more important to file the documents correctly, ensure proper service, and identify in advance which issues are likely to become genuinely disputed.
If the spouse does not respond, a default procedure may apply. If the spouse responds and objects, the case proceeds as a contested matter. In either situation, simply refusing to “give a divorce” does not stop the case.
A Florida family law attorney can evaluate the specific circumstances, determine the appropriate next steps, and prepare a legal position on the issues that are unlikely to be resolved by agreement.
In Florida, one spouse cannot force the other to remain married simply by refusing to agree to the divorce. But disagreement over the terms of the divorce can make the process substantially more complicated—and that is what the parties should be prepared for in advance.