It is not uncommon for one spouse to want a divorce while the other refuses to accept it. One spouse may say outright that they will not sign anything. Another may ignore messages and court papers, hoping that this will stop the process.

In Florida, that does not prevent a dissolution of marriage.

Florida follows a no-fault divorce system. A spouse filing for divorce does not have to prove adultery, cruelty, or other marital fault. One of the statutory grounds is that the marriage is irretrievably broken. This is set out in Florida Statutes § 61.052.

Accordingly, the other spouse’s consent and desire to preserve the marriage are not the same as having a legal right to block the divorce.

If the Other Spouse Does Not Agree to the Divorce

One spouse may file the petition. The other spouse’s signature consenting to the dissolution of marriage is not required.

The procedural requirements must still be satisfied. In particular, at least one spouse must meet Florida’s six-month residency requirement before the petition is filed.

After the case is filed, the other party must be properly served with the court papers. From that point, the process depends less on that person’s attitude toward the divorce itself and more on how they respond to the relief requested.
The spouse may participate in the case and dispute issues involving property, debts, alimony, a parenting plan, or time-sharing. The divorce then becomes contested. In many cases, those issues—not the desire to preserve the marriage—take up most of the litigation.

There is also a separate situation in which a spouse answers the petition and denies that the marriage is irretrievably broken. Depending on the circumstances, the law allows the court to continue the proceeding for up to three months, refer the parties to counseling, or take other measures authorized by statute.

But this does not give the other spouse an unlimited right to keep someone in the marriage. If the court finds that the marriage is in fact irretrievably broken, it may enter a final judgment dissolving the marriage.

“I Won’t Sign Anything.” Will That Stop the Case?

No. Refusing to sign documents and withholding consent do not, by themselves, stop the court proceeding.
In fact, ignoring the court papers may place the respondent in a less favorable procedural position.

After proper service of the petition, the spouse generally has 20 days to file a response. If no response is filed, the petitioner may request entry of a default and move the case forward. This procedure is expressly addressed in Florida Curts materials.

That is why the statement “I won’t sign the papers, so there will be no divorce” has no legal effect in Florida.

The situation is different if the spouse responds but disagrees with the terms. That spouse may contest the relief requested, submit documents, and present legal arguments. The dispute may therefore last longer, but the issue becomes the terms on which the marriage will end—not whether one spouse has a veto over the divorce itself.

Can a Spouse Prevent the Divorce Altogether?

Florida law provides no such mechanism.

State law abolished a number of older defenses that were historically raised in divorce proceedings. The court must still follow the statutory procedure and determine that a legal ground for dissolution of marriage exists.
In practice, it is useful to separate two very different questions.

First: can you get divorced without your spouse’s consent? Yes. The other spouse’s consent is not a legal prerequisite.
Second: can the divorce always be completed quickly and without disputes? Not necessarily.

If a spouse contests the division of property, alimony, or issues involving the children, the case may require negotiations, financial disclosure, presentation of evidence, and court hearings.

What to Do if a Spouse Refuses to Participate in the Divorce

The main mistake in this situation is to build the entire process around trying to obtain the other spouse’s consent.
It is far more important to file the documents correctly, ensure proper service, and identify in advance which issues are likely to become genuinely disputed.

If the spouse does not respond, a default procedure may apply. If the spouse responds and objects, the case proceeds as a contested matter. In either situation, simply refusing to “give a divorce” does not stop the case.

A Florida family law attorney can evaluate the specific circumstances, determine the appropriate next steps, and prepare a legal position on the issues that are unlikely to be resolved by agreement.

In Florida, one spouse cannot force the other to remain married simply by refusing to agree to the divorce. But disagreement over the terms of the divorce can make the process substantially more complicated—and that is what the parties should be prepared for in advance.

In a divorce, people usually talk a great deal about the house, bank accounts, and other property. In practice, however, debts cause just as many disputes. Who will pay the mortgage? What happens to a credit card that is only in one spouse’s name? Can a person remain liable for a loan after the divorce even though the property has already been transferred to the former husband or wife?

In Florida, these issues are resolved under the principle of equitable distribution—fair, but not necessarily equal, division.

First, the origin of each obligation must be determined. Some debts are marital and are subject to distribution; others remain separate. The main rules are set out in section 61.075 of the Florida Statutes.

Equal distribution is the starting point, but a 50/50 split is not required in every case.

Whose Name the Debt Is In Is Not Always Decisive

Debts incurred during the marriage are generally treated as marital liabilities. The debt does not necessarily have to be in both spouses’ names.

For example, a wife opened a credit card solely in her name. Over several years, the spouses used it to buy furniture and household appliances, pay for trips, and cover other family expenses.

In a divorce, simply saying that “the card is in the wife’s name” will not be enough to have the entire debt automatically classified as her separate liability. What matters is when and under what circumstances the debt was incurred.

The situation is different for debts that existed before the marriage. Section 61.075(6) of the Florida Statutes classifies them as the separate liabilities of one spouse. The same may apply to debts that the spouses excluded from marital liabilities in advance through a written agreement.

The law also contains a separate rule for forgery or the unauthorized use of a signature.

Imagine that a husband obtained a loan without his wife’s knowledge and signed documents in her name. If the wife did not later ratify that signature, the mere fact of the marriage does not turn the debt into a marital liability. The law treats such an obligation as the separate responsibility of the spouse who committed the forgery or used the signature without authorization.

Do Debts Have to Be Divided Equally?

No. The court begins with equal distribution but then considers the circumstances of the particular marriage: the spouses’ economic circumstances, the duration of the marriage, each party’s contribution, and other factors listed in section 61.075.

The court may also consider what happened to marital funds shortly before the divorce. If one spouse intentionally dissipated marital funds or incurred unjustified financial obligations, that can affect the final distribution.

Therefore, the fact that the debt amounts are equal says nothing by itself about the outcome of the case.

This is where the history of the debt becomes important: when it arose, what the money was spent on, and how each spouse’s actions affected the couple’s finances.

The Court Divided the Debt. What Will the Bank Say?

This is a separate issue that is easy to overlook. A court order governs the relationship between the spouses. But by itself, it does not rewrite the contract with the bank or another creditor.

Suppose the court decides in the divorce that the husband must pay a particular loan balance. If the wife is still named as a borrower in the loan agreement, the bank will not necessarily stop treating her as a party to the obligation.

On paper, the debt has already been allocated between the former spouses. In their relationship with the creditor, the situation may remain unchanged.

That is why the division of debts requires a review of two sets of documents: the terms of the divorce and the loan agreement itself.

What Happens to a Mortgage After Divorce?

This issue is particularly apparent with a mortgage. Imagine a family that bought a house together several years ago and took out a mortgage in both spouses’ names. After the divorce, the property remains with the wife.

Title to the house can be transferred. But the husband’s name does not automatically disappear from the mortgage agreement simply because the divorce terms now award the house to his former wife.

As a result, a person may no longer own the property but may still remain liable to the bank.

That is why the house and the mortgage cannot be treated as two separate issues. When preparing the terms of the property division, it is important to understand in advance what will happen not only to the property itself but also to the loan secured by it.

Do You Have to Be Responsible for a Former Spouse’s Debts?

Not for every debt. The mere fact of marriage does not make a person responsible for every financial decision made by a husband or wife.

When a dispute arises, each obligation must be examined: when the debt arose, who signed the documents, whether it was connected to the marriage, and whether there are grounds to classify it as separate.

If the court classifies an obligation as marital, the next question is how it should be distributed. If the debt is separate, it generally remains with the spouse to whom it belongs.

If the court departs from an equal distribution, it must explain why the circumstances of the case require a different result.

What Should Be Reviewed Before Signing a Division Agreement?

When there is a mortgage, several loans, or substantial credit card debt, it is useful to gather more than just a list of amounts.

The necessary records include agreements, statements, outstanding balances, and documents that make it possible to understand the history of each loan.

Sometimes this review reveals a problem that the spouses did not initially notice: they have already “divided” the debt between themselves, but both remain liable to the bank.

A Florida family attorney can help determine which debts are marital, whether there are grounds for unequal distribution, and how the proposed terms will operate after the divorce is final.

It is better to clarify this before signing an agreement than to discover later that, in the creditor’s eyes, your former spouse’s obligation is still yours as well.